- In Brief
- In Depth
- Does Exemption Become Prohibition?
- Why was Rabbi Eliezer so Wary of Women's Torah Study?
- Women’s Obligation
- Text Study Vs. Informal Transmission
- How Should Women Learn Torah?
- Further Reading
- Notes
- Sources
- Q&A
- Why was Rabbi Eliezer so Wary of Women's Torah Study?
- How Should Women Learn Torah?
- Podcast
What Torah does a woman have to learn?
In Brief
Where does exemption from the mitzva of talmud Torah leave women?
The Mishna presents two rabbinic perspectives on women’s Torah study, Ben Azzai’s and Rabbi Eliezer’s.
- Ben Azzai says a father has an obligation to teach his daughter Torah, and that her Torah study can be beneficial.
- Rabbi Eliezer strongly disagrees. He likens a father teaching his daughter Torah to teaching her tiflut (lewdness, or nonsense). It’s hard to know exactly what Rabbi Eliezer means by this and why he says it. But it is clear that he is not in favor of women learning Torah.
Rabbi Eliezer’s position becomes widely accepted as halacha.
If a woman can’t learn Torah, how is she supposed to know how to observe Halacha?
Presumably even Rabbi Eliezer never meant to exclude women from Torah study for the purpose of learning practical Halacha. Even if he was opposed to text study, he would have at least supported women’s Torah study through informal cultural transmission.
Is learning Torah exclusively through informal cultural transmission enough, or should everyone have access to texts?
Early halachic authorities disagree on this question. As early as the thirteenth century, Rav Yitzchak of Corbeil addresses his mitzva compendium to women and men.
What other avenues were left open for women’s formal study? Continue to Learning Torah III: Openings
In Depth
Rav Ezra Bick, Ilana Elzufon, Shayna Goldberg, and Rav Da’vid Sperling, eds.
Does Exemption Become Prohibition?
Where does exemption from the mitzva of talmud Torah leave women?
There is no dispute that women are exempt from the Torah-level mitzva of talmud Torah.1 The Mishna discusses the implications of the exemption.
Surprisingly, the context of the discussion in this mishna is a claim made about a suspected sota (lit., straying woman; see Bemidbar 5:11-31). A sota is a player in a halachic tragedy: A husband suspects his wife of an illicit relationship with another man. He has an official injunction issued against her being alone with the other man. She nevertheless secludes herself with the other man– and there are witnesses to prove it. The husband chooses to pursue a claim against her all the way to the Temple. There, in a shaming ordeal, God’s own name is written on a scroll and then that scroll is ground into water. The woman is forced to drink it in order to restore faith with her husband. If guilty of adultery, the woman and her illicit partner die a death administered by God.
As precarious as her situation is, the mishna considers the possibility that even a guilty sota might be more than a sinner. She may have merits working in her favor, like Torah study. When a woman in this situation has other merits, those merits can hold off her Divine punishment for years:
משנה מסכת סוטה ג:ד
מכאן אומר בן עזאי: חייב אדם ללמד את בתו תורה, שאם תשתה תדע שהזכות תולה לה. ר”א אומר כל המלמד בתו תורה לומדה תפלות …
Mishna Sota 3:4
From here Ben Azzai says: A man is obligated to teach his daughter Torah, [so] that if she drinks [the sota water] she will know that [it is] the merit that suspends [punishment] for her. Rabbi Eliezer says: Anyone who teaches his daughter Torah is teaching her tiflut [nonsense or lewdness].
Is there any obligation for women to learn Torah?
I. Ben Azzai’s Position Ben Azzai learns that a man must teach his daughter Torah “from here.” Why does he connect women’s talmud Torah to the sota ritual?
Through the merit of Torah learning, a sota (and possibly others) will not mistake delay in punishment for a lapse in the execution of Divine judgment.
In context, Ben Azzai teaches us that a woman’s learning Torah is significant specifically for the woman who has committed adultery and undergoes the sota ordeal. Can his reasoning have implications beyond this specific case?
We can, in fact, read Ben Azzai more broadly. If a woman’s Torah learning has positive effects even in this extreme and tragic case, her learning should be an asset in any life situation. Perhaps that’s why a father must teach his daughter Torah in general. Her learning Torah may even prevent her from becoming a sota to begin with.
Ben Azzai doesn’t challenge the Torah’s exemption of a father from the mitzva of teaching his daughter. He uses the case of the sota to argue for a different source of obligation. In his eyes, the Torah leaves room for encouraging and even obligating women’s Torah study.
II. Rabbi Eliezer’s Position Rabbi Eliezer disagrees. He does not phrase his objection to women’s Torah study in the halachic language of prohibition, but he strongly discourages it. A father’s teaching his daughter Torah causes more trouble than it prevents. He likens it to tiflut, which means nonsense (or lewdness, as opposed to piety, perishut).
What is this about? The Talmud provides an explanation:
סוטה כא:
א”ר אבהו מאי טעמא דר”א דכתיב ‘אני חכמה שכנתי ערמה,’ (משלי ח:יב). כיון שנכנסה חכמה באדם נכנסה עמו ערמומית
Sota 21b
Rabbi Abbahu said: What is Rabbi Eliezer’s rationale? It is written “I, wisdom, dwell [in] craftiness” (Mishlei 8:12). When wisdom has entered a person, craftiness enters with it.
According to the Talmud, cunning comes along with knowledge, and that is what concerns Rabbi Eliezer. Somehow cunning leads to tiflut. The suggestion seems to be that even Torah knowledge comes at the expense of innocence, and might lead a woman astray! This is the opposite of how we typically view the influence of Torah study.
Meiri, a medieval Provencal Talmudic commentator, uses analogy to explain Rabbi Eliezer a little differently. He compares a woman learning to a bell. A hollow bell produces a loud clang.2 A woman is presumably a beginner, and beginner’s knowledge tends to be shallow. A false sense of mastery can be misleading, or even dangerous. That can lead to tiflut.
How strongly does Rabbi Eliezer discourage women’s study?
A story in the Talmud Yerushalmi teaches us how firmly Rabbi Eliezer held this opinion. In Rabbi Eliezer’s time, a Levi might form a relationship with a non-Levi, such that his family would personally receive all of the non-Levi’s tithings over the course of the year. The matron of the following story was such a “patron” of Rabbi Eliezer’s family, who were Kohanim (and followed the opinion that a Kohen can receive the levitical tithe, because he is also descended from Levi).
תלמוד ירושלמי מסכת סוטה ג:ד
מטרונה שאלה את ר’ לעזר: מפני מה חט אחת במעשה העגל, והן מתים בה שלש מיתות? אמ’ לה: אין חכמתה שלאשה אלא בפילכה. דכת’ (שמות לה) “וכל אשה חכמת לב בידיה טוו.” אמ’ לו הורקנוס בנו: בשביל שלא להשיבה דבר אחד מן התורה, איבדת ממני שלש מאות כור מעשר בכל שנה. אמ’ ליה: ישרפו דברי תורה ואל ימסרו לנשים.
Talmud Yerushalmi Sota 3:4
A matron asked Rabbi Eliezer: Why is there one sin in the story of the [golden] calf, but they die for it three [types] of death? He said to her: A woman’s wisdom is only in her spindle, as it is written, “And every woman wise of heart spun [for the mishkan] with her hands” (Shemot 35). His son Hyrkanos said to him: For the sake of not answering her one matter from the Torah, you have lost for me 300 measures [roughly 360 liters] of the [Levite] tithe per annum. He [Rabbi Eliezer] said to him [his son]: [Better that] matters of Torah be burnt and they not be transmitted to women.
From other passages in rabbinic literature, we know that Rabbi Eliezer is a fiery character, particularly zealous about his vision of proper transmission of Torah from teacher to student. In this story, his zealousness comes out in full force.
Even at considerable personal cost, Rabbi Eliezer defies his son’s matron’s request. Rabbi Eliezer will not teach Torah to a woman under any circumstances.
For Rabbi Eliezer, women’s wisdom is restricted to “her spindle.” The spindle belongs outside the world of Torah learning, whether in the home realm, as spinning typically was, or as part of communal Jewish endeavor, like the original spinning for the mishkan, the desert tabernacle.
In the continuation of the story, Rabbi Eliezer answers the matron’s question for his students. He does not challenge her knowledge of Scripture or her question’s acuity. Rather, he flatly refuses to explain complex Torah matters to women. This is not mild opposition.
Why was Rabbi Eliezer so Wary of Women's Torah Study?
It is difficult to fathom why Rabbi Eliezer held his position. How could Torah study could ever be detrimental to anyone?
There are three main approaches to addressing this question:
I. Historical We might be tempted to take a historical approach and suggest that the inferior social and educational status of women in his day formed Rabbi Eliezer’s perspective on women learning Torah. It is true that most women of his time did not receive any formal education, in Torah or otherwise.
However, Rabbi Eliezer’s wife, Imma Shalom, appears in the Talmud as a thoughtful and powerful personality of great lineage. And in the story cited above, the matron’s social status is high; Rabbi Eliezer’s own son depends on her generosity. Rabbi Eliezer even recognizes that the matron’s questions are good questions. He thinks they are worthy of answers– when his male students ask him to address them.
We should also remember that Ben Azzai, who disagreed with Rabbi Eliezer, lived in the same era.
These points complicate efforts to dismiss Rabbi Eliezer as a product of an unfathomably distant past.
II. Essentialist Another approach to understanding Rabbi Eliezer’s perspective hinges on perceived essential differences between men and women. We know from his reference to women’s wisdom at the spindle that Rabbi Eliezer sees women’s wisdom as distinct from men’s.
Elsewhere, the Talmud presents a debate about nature versus nurture and cognitive maturity for making vows. One position claims that male cognitive development proceeds faster than females’, because a boy’s educational opportunity advances him.4 A boy’s education means that his vows should take effect at an earlier age than his female peers.
A second view, associated with Rabbi Yehuda Ha-nasi, claims that females develop intellectual maturity faster than males. Halacha follows Rabbi Yehuda Ha-nasi. A female’s vows are binding at an earlier age than those of males. The rationale is that women have more bina than men:
נדה מה:
בינה יתירה באשה יותר מבאיש
Nidda 45b
There is more discernment [bina] in a woman than in a man.
Many rabbis have drawn on this idea to discuss essential differences between men and women. For example, Maharal of Prague contrasts a woman’s bina, which he translates as raw intelligence, with more abstract intelligence, which he identifies with men.5 Rav Kook references bina too. He argues that women have less need for formal study than men.6
Rav Baruch Ha-levi Epstein, author of Torah Temima, compares the Talmud’s statement about bina with one that suggests women have a deficit of da’at, cognitive agency, compared to men.7 How can women simultaneously be superior and inferior to men?
He attempts to reconcile a woman’s da’at deficit with her surplus bina by suggesting that bina and da’at represent different types of thinking. So, for example, he considers Oral Torah to be less suited to a woman’s bina than Written Torah.8
Following this line of thought, we could argue that men and women, on the whole, have different cognitive styles. The differences in the halacha of talmud Torah for men and women may reflect perceived gender differences like this.9
III. General Approach to Study Rabbi Eliezer’s perspective might result from his rigid views on the proper transmission of Torah from teacher to student.10 Rabbi Eliezer opposes divergence from the teacher-student model in which he himself learned and taught. To him, a female student might be another unacceptable divergence from tradition.
Women’s Obligation
If a woman can’t learn Torah, how is she supposed to know how to observe Halacha?
Rabbi Eliezer’s ruling that women should not learn Torah finds wide halachic acceptance. But it raises questions. Other sources imply that women did study Torah and may even be required to do so.
The Talmud records that in the time of King Chizkiya every boy, girl, man, and woman was expert in the laws of purity and impurity.11 This seems to contradict Rabbi Eliezer’s opposition to women’s learning Torah.
Similarly, the Torah obligates women to attend the Torah reading of hakhel. Doesn’t this obligation contradict Rabbi Eliezer’s position? Here, the Talmud may help us resolve the contradiction.
חגיגה דף ג.
“הקהל את העם האנשים והנשים והטף […לְמַעַן יִשְׁמְעוּ וּלְמַעַן יִלְמְדוּ, וְיָרְאוּ אֶת-ה’ אֱלֹהֵיכֶם, וְשָׁמְרוּ לַעֲשׂוֹת, אֶת-כָּל-דִּבְרֵי הַתּוֹרָה הַזֹּאת].” אם אנשים באים ל’למוד’, נשים באות ל’שמוע’, טף– למה באין? כדי ליתן שכר למביאיהן.
Chagiga 3a
“Assemble the people: the men, the women, and the children…[that they should hear and that they should learn, and they will fear the Lord your God, and they will be careful to perform all the words of this Torah].” If ‘the men’ come to ‘learn,’ ‘women’ come to ‘listen,’ ‘children’—why do they come? In order to give reward to those who bring them.
Rabbi Elazar Ben Azarya breaks down the verse regarding hakhel into units that he then lines up with each other. The phrase “in order that they will learn” corresponds to “the men”, and “in order that they will hear” to “the women.” In hakhel, men “learn,” while women merely “listen.” What is the difference between listening and learning? Tosafot explain that it has to do with mitzva performance.
תוספות סוטה כא:
ונראה דפי’ דמצוה לשמוע הנשים כדי שידעו לקיים מצוה…
Tosafot Sota 21b
And it appears that its explanation [is] that [it is] a mitzva for the women to hear in order that they [can] know [how] to fulfill [the] command….
Rabbi Elazar says women must “hear” or “listen” to Torah in order to fulfill mitzvot. Women need not “learn” Torah for its own sake. Rabbi Elazar rejects the view that a father must teach his daughter Torah.12 She needs to learn only what is practically necessary.
Rereading Rabbi Eliezer
Perhaps Rabbi Eliezer’s objection to women’s study still allows for learning Torah in order to observe mitzvot. That would make his viewpoint close to Rabbi Elazar’s and resolve the contradiction between his position and hakhel.
The early-thirteenth century pietistic work Sefer Chasidim makes exactly this argument:
ספר חסידים סימן שיג
חייב אדם ללמוד לבנותיו המצות, כגון פסקי הלכות. ומה שאמרו, שהמלמד לאשה תורה כאלו מלמדה תיפלות, זהו עומק תלמוד וטעמי המצות וסודי התורה. אותן אין מלמדין לאשה ולקטן. אבל הלכות מצות ילמד לה, שאם לא תדע הלכות שבת, איך תשמור שבת? וכן כל מצות כדי לעשות להזהר במצות.
Sefer Chasidim 313
A man is obligated to teach his daughters the mitzvot, such as halachic rulings. And that which they said, that he who teaches a woman Torah is as though he teaches her tiflut, that [refers specifically to] depth of Talmud and reasons for commandments and secrets of the Torah. Those we do not teach to a woman and to a minor. But the laws of mitzvot he should teach her, for if she will not know the laws of Shabbat, how will she keep Shabbat? And similarly all mitzvot, in order to perform [them and] to be careful [to observe] the mitzvot.
According to Sefer Chasidim, there is an obligation for a father to teach his daughter Halacha. How else can she keep it? No one can observe Shabbat without at least some knowledge of it. Sefer Chasidim argues that Rabbi Eliezer meant to rule out only specific areas of study: the depths of Talmud study, philosophical speculation about mitzvot, and kabbala. Those would be off limits to women, while Halacha-oriented learning would not be.
Text Study Vs. Informal Transmission
If Rabbi Eliezer would concede that women must learn at least enough Torah to be able to fulfill Halacha, how should that be done?
Even if women must learn practical halachot, perhaps text study isn’t the proper method of study. As discussed in our introduction, there are two classic modes for transmitting Judaism, text study and learning through informal, imitative transmission (mimesis).
I. Informal Transmission Maharil, great halachic authority of late-fourteenth to early-fifteenth century Ashkenaz, argues that women should learn Halacha chiefly through mimesis.
שו”ת מהרי”ל סימן קצט
ואי משום דידעו לקיים המצות, אפשר שילמדו ע”פ הקבלה השרשים והכללות. וכשיסתפקו ישאלו למורה. כאשר אנו רואין בדורינו שבקיאות הרבה בדיני מליחה והדחה וניקור והלכות נדה וכיוצא בזה, והכל ע”פ הקבלה מבחוץ
Responsa Maharil siman 199
And if [you suggest formal study in order] that they should know to perform mitzvot, they can learn the key points and the rules through received tradition. And when they have a doubt they will ask a halachic authority. As we see in our generation, that they are quite expert in the laws of salting and rinsing [meat after slaughter] and removing the sciatic nerve and the laws of nidda and the like, and everything through the received tradition from their environment.
Maharil credits women with real halachic expertise. In his experience, that expertise has nothing to do with formal study. Formal study becomes important only when questions arise, and rabbis can address them.
Maharil’s opposition to women’s study is part of a general wariness he has about making study of Halacha available to the unlearned, men or women. He actively opposes the composition of halachic summary books in the vernacular.13
Why is Maharil so skeptical of text study by women? He doesn’t think summary texts teach Halacha well, and he doesn’t think it likely that women’s text study would get beyond summary texts.
II. Formal Study Other halachic authorities disagree. A woman can perfect knowledge of practical mitzvot through formal study. For example, Rav Yitzchak of Corbeil, a major Tosafist who preceded Maharil by roughly a hundred years, wrote a brief halachic compendium called Sefer Mitzvot Katan, (literally, the Little Book of Mitzvot), known as Semak. Rav Yitzchak addresses his book to both women and men. His student, in an introduction to the work, explains why:
ספר מצוות קטן הקדמה
….וגם כתב עוד לנשים המצות הנוהגות להם, עשה ולאו, ותועיל להן הקריאה והדקדוק בהן כאשר יועיל עסק התלמוד לאנשים
Sefer Mitzvot Katan (Semak), Introduction
…He also wrote for women the mitzvot that apply to them, positive and negative, and they will benefit from reading and learning them precisely, just as the occupation with Talmud benefits men.
Rav Yitzchak writes about women’s obligations in his book because women’s mitzva performance has as much to gain from text study as does men’s. The introduction to Semak even compares women’s study of his work to men’s study of Talmud. By writing a halachic guide for men and women, Rav Yitzchak establishes that women should study halacha.
Interestingly, Maharil himself cites Rav Yitzchak’s approach in another responsum.14 Although Maharil personally disagrees with Rav Yitzchak, he acknowledges that his position on women’s Torah study is a valid halachic perspective.
Open Debate
In his glosses to the Shulchan Aruch, Rema rules that women are obligated to learn the laws applying to women:
רמ”א שו”ע יורה דעה סימן רמו
ומ”מ חייבת האשה ללמוד דינים השייכים לאשה
Rema Y. D. 246
And in any case the woman is obligated to learn laws that apply to a woman.
Unfortunately, Rema does not resolve the debate between Maharil and Rav Yitzchak of Corbeil. He gives no indication of how women should approach learning these laws, through mimesis alone or also through text study.
How Should Women Learn Torah?
While women are not obligated in the formal mitzva of talmud Torah, women are obligated to learn practical halachot. Rabbi Eliezer’s opposition to women’s study of Torah does not preclude learning halachot. The question has long been: How?
Which is more effective at teaching Halacha and protecting against mistakes, text study or informal transmission?
On the one hand, informal learning is well suited to preserving custom and detail.
However, it can also lend itself to misunderstanding or to exaggeration over time, in the direction of leniency or of stringency. To make matters worse, a woman who has learned Halacha informally is unlikely to be aware of gaps in her knowledge. Any rabbinic intervention would likely come unsolicited, and she may very well not take it to heart.
On the other hand, textual learning can be thorough and systematic. But it can be hard to know how to put book knowledge into practice.
The best answer is probably to combine the two methods– and to seek expert guidance for both.
Continue to Learning Torah III: Openings
Further Reading
- גוטל, הרב נריה. “תלמוד תורה לנשים”, מתוך טל לישראל, ערך: מיכאל שטיגליץ, עמ’ 41‑64. מרכז שפירא: המכון התורני אור עציון, תשס”ה.
- הנקין, הרב יהודה. שו”ת בני בנים, חלק ג, סימן י”ב. צור אות: ירושלים, 1998.
- רוזנפלד, ב., עורך. האשה וחינוכה. כפר סבא: אמנה, 1980.
- שבט, הרב ארי יצחק, “אגרת חדשה של הרב קוק בנושא תלמוד תורה לנשים.” מתוך מאורות ליהודה, ערך: מ. רחימי. אלקנה: אורות ישראל, תשע”ב, עמ’ 343‑362.
- Harvey, Dr. Warren Z., “The Obligation of Talmud on Women According to Maimonides,” Tradition 19:2 (Summer 1981), pp. 122-130.
- Wolowelsky, Joel, ed. Women and the Study of Torah. New York: Ktav, 2001.
- Zolty, Shoshana. And All Your Children Shall Be Learned: Women and the Study of Torah in Jewish Law. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson, 1997.
Notes
בית הבחירה סוטה דף כ.
והיא סבורה שהשיגה ומקשקשת כפעמון להראות את חכמתה לכל
Beit Ha-bechira, Sota 20a
And she thinks that she has achieved [deep knowledge] and clangs like a bell to show her wisdom to all.
משנה מסכת סוטה ג:ד
רבי יהושע אומר רוצה אשה בקב ותפלות מתשעה קבין ופרישות
Mishna Sota 3:4
Rabbi Yehoshua says: A woman prefers one measure and lewdness to nine measures and piety.
4.Note that the term “cunning” here does not seem to have the same negative connotation as it did in the passage from Sota discussed above.
מסכת נדה דף מה:
אמר רב שמואל בר רב יצחק: מתוך שהתינוק מצוי בבית רבו נכנסת בו ערמומית תחלה
Nidda 45b
R. Shmuel son of Yitzhak said: Since the boy is found in his teacher’s home, cunning enters him first.
מהר”ל חידושי אגדות מס’ נדה מה:
כי האיש יש לו שכל וחכמה ביותר הוא השכל הנבדל, אבל שכל היולאני מוכנת האשה לקבל ביותר
For the man has sechel and exceeding wisdom– namely, abstract intelligence– but a woman is more prepared to receive raw intelligence.
תורה תמימה דברים פרק יא הערה מח
כי כשרונות דעת ובינה שונים הן, … ולכן אף על פי שהנשים יש להן כח בבינה יתירה אבל דעתן …קלה היא ….
Torah Temima Devarim 11 Note 48
For the faculties of knowledge and discernment are different…and therefore even though women have strength of extra discernment but their knowledge…is light…
מס’ סוכה כח.
ולא אמרתי דבר שלא שמעתי מפי רבי מעולם
Sukka 28a
And I never said anything that I didn’t hear from my Rabbi.
מס’ סנהדרין צד:
בדקו מדן ועד באר שבע ולא מצאו עם הארץ מגבת ועד אנטיפרס ולא מצאו תינוק ותינוקת איש ואשה שלא היו בקיאין בהלכות טומאה וטהרה
Sanhedrin 94b
They checked from Dan to Be’er-Sheva and did not find an ignoramus. From Gevat to Antipras and did not find a male or female child man or woman who were not expert in the halachot of impurity and purity.
ירושלמי סוטה פרק ג:ד
ובן עזאי דלא כרבי לעזר בן עזריה
Talmud Yerushalmi Sota 3:4
And Ben Azzai is not like Rabbi Elazar Ben Azarya.
Sources
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Does Exemption Become Prohibition?
משנה מסכת סוטה ג:ד
מכאן אומר בן עזאי: חייב אדם ללמד את בתו תורה, שאם תשתה תדע שהזכות תולה לה. ר”א אומר כל המלמד בתו תורה לומדה תפלות …
Mishna Sota 3:4
From here Ben Azzai says: A man is obligated to teach his daughter Torah, [so] that if she drinks [the sota water] she will know that [it is] the merit that suspends [punishment] for her. Rabbi Eliezer says: Anyone who teaches his daughter Torah is teaching her tiflut [nonsense or lewdness].
סוטה כא:
א”ר אבהו מאי טעמא דר”א דכתיב ‘אני חכמה שכנתי ערמה,’ (משלי ח:יב). כיון שנכנסה חכמה באדם נכנסה עמו ערמומית
Sota 21b
Rabbi Abbahu said: What is Rabbi Eliezer’s rationale? It is written “I, wisdom, dwell [in] craftiness,” (Mishlei 8:12). When wisdom has entered a person, craftiness enters with it.
תלמוד ירושלמי מסכת סוטה ג:ד
מטרונה שאלה את ר’ לעזר: מפני מה חט אחת במעשה העגל, והן מתים בה שלש מיתות? אמ’ לה: אין חכמתה שלאשה אלא בפילכה. דכת’ (שמות לה) “וכל אשה חכמת לב בידיה טוו.” אמ’ לו הורקנוס בנו: בשביל שלא להשיבה דבר אחד מן התורה, איבדת ממני שלש מאות כור מעשר בכל שנה. אמ’ ליה: ישרפו דברי תורה ואל ימסרו לנשים.
Talmud Yerushalmi Sota 3:4
A matron asked Rabbi Eliezer: Why is there one sin in the story of the [golden] calf, but they die for it three [types] of death? He said to her: A woman’s wisdom is only in her spindle, as it is written, “And every woman wise of heart spun [for the mishkan] with her hands” (Shemot 35). His son Hyrkanos said to him: For the sake of not answering her one matter from the Torah, you have lost for me 300 measures [roughly 360 liters] of the [Levite] tithe per annum. He [Rabbi Eliezer] said to him [his son]: [Better that] matters of Torah be burnt and they not be transmitted to women.
נדה מה:
בינה יתירה באשה יותר מבאיש
Nidda 45b
There is more discernment [bina] in a woman than in a man.
Women’s Obligation
חגיגה דף ג.
“הקהל את העם האנשים והנשים והטף […לְמַעַן יִשְׁמְעוּ וּלְמַעַן יִלְמְדוּ, וְיָרְאוּ אֶת-ה’ אֱלֹהֵיכֶם, וְשָׁמְרוּ לַעֲשׂוֹת, אֶת-כָּל-דִּבְרֵי הַתּוֹרָה הַזֹּאת].” אם אנשים באים ל’למוד’, נשים באות ל’שמוע’, טף– למה באין? כדי ליתן שכר למביאיהן.
Chagiga 3a
“Assemble the people: the men, the women, and the children…[that they should hear and that they should learn, and they will fear the Lord your God, and they will be careful to perform all the words of this Torah].” If ‘the men’ come to ‘learn,’ ‘women’ come to ‘listen,’ ‘children’—why do they come? In order to give reward to those who bring them.
תוספות סוטה כא:
ונראה דפי’ דמצוה לשמוע הנשים כדי שידעו לקיים מצוה…
Tosafot Sota 21b
And it appears that its explanation [is] that [it is] a mitzva for the women to hear in order that they [can] know [how] to fulfill [the] command….
ספר חסידים סימן שיג
חייב אדם ללמוד לבנותיו המצות, כגון פסקי הלכות. ומה שאמרו, שהמלמד לאשה תורה כאלו מלמדה תיפלות, זהו עומק תלמוד וטעמי המצות וסודי התורה. אותן אין מלמדין לאשה ולקטן. אבל הלכות מצות ילמד לה, שאם לא תדע הלכות שבת, איך תשמור שבת? וכן כל מצות כדי לעשות להזהר במצות.
Sefer Chasidim 313
A man is obligated to teach his daughters the mitzvot, such as halachic rulings. And that which they said, that he who teaches a woman Torah is as though he teaches her tiflut, that [refers specifically to] depth of Talmud and reasons for commandments and secrets of the Torah. Those we do not teach to a woman and to a minor. But the laws of mitzvot he should teach her, for if she will not know the laws of Shabbat, how will she keep Shabbat? And similarly all mitzvot, in order to perform [them and] to be careful [to observe] the mitzvot.
Text Study vs. Informal Transmission
שו”ת מהרי”ל סימן קצט
ואי משום דידעו לקיים המצות, אפשר שילמדו ע”פ הקבלה השרשים והכללות. וכשיסתפקו ישאלו למורה. כאשר אנו רואין בדורינו שבקיאות הרבה בדיני מליחה והדחה וניקור והלכות נדה וכיוצא בזה, והכל ע”פ הקבלה מבחוץ,
Responsa Maharil siman 199
And if [you suggest formal study in order] that they should know to perform mitzvot, they can learn the key points and the rules through received tradition. And when they have a doubt they will ask a halachic authority. As we see in our generation, that they are quite expert in the laws of salting and rinsing [meat after slaughter] and removing the sciatic nerve and the laws of nidda and the like, and everything through the received tradition from their environment.
שו”ת מהרי”ל החדשות צג
הנח להו לבנות ישראל, אם אינן נביאות הן, בנות נביאות הן. ומנעוריהן בקיאין הן על פי אימותן והורתן. ושורש רוב החומרות דרבנן, דמקילי הרבה בנות ע”ה ונשותיהן. על כן מוטל על כל חכם ות”ח להודיעם ולהפרישם מאיסור ולהדריכן בדרך ישרה, ולכל הפחות בני ביתו והם יודיעו לחברותיהם…
New Responsa Maharil 93
Leave it to them, to the daughters of Israel, [for] if they are not prophetesses, they are daughters of prophetesses. And from their youth they are expert in accordance with their mothers and their teachings. And the root of most rabbinic stringencies is that many daughters and wives of the unlearned are lenient. Therefore, it is incumbent upon every sage and student of the sages to inform them and to separate them from that which is prohibited and to guide them in the straight path, at the least the members of his household, and they will inform their friends…
ספר מצוות קטן הקדמה
….וגם כתב עוד לנשים המצות הנוהגות להם, עשה ולאו, ותועיל להן הקריאה והדקדוק בהן כאשר יועיל עסק התלמוד לאנשים
Sefer Mitzvot Katan (Semak), Introduction
…He also wrote for women the mitzvot that apply to them, positive and negative, and they will benefit from reading and learning them precisely, just as the occupation with Talmud benefits men.
רמ”א שו”ע יורה דעה סימן רמו
ומ”מ חייבת האשה ללמוד דינים השייכים לאשה
Rema Y. D. 246
And in any case the woman is obligated to learn laws that apply to a woman.
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Why was Rabbi Eliezer so Wary of Women's Torah Study?
It is difficult to fathom why Rabbi Eliezer held his position. How could Torah study could ever be detrimental to anyone?
There are three main approaches to addressing this question:
(1) Historical We might be tempted to to take a historical approach and suggest that the inferior social and educational status of women in his day formed Rabbi Eliezer’s perspective on women learning Torah. It is true that most women of his time did not receive any formal education, in Torah or otherwise.
However, Rabbi Eliezer’s wife, Imma Shalom, appears in the Talmud as a thoughtful and powerful personality of great lineage. And in the story cited above, the matron’s social status is high; Rabbi Eliezer’s own son depends on her generosity. Rabbi Eliezer even recognizes that the matron’s questions are good questions. He thinks they are worthy of answers– when his male students ask him to address them.
We should also remember that Ben Azzai, who disagreed with Rabbi Eliezer, lived in the same era.
These points complicate efforts to dismiss Rabbi Eliezer as a product of an unfathomably distant past.
(2) Essentialist Another approach to understanding Rabbi Eliezer’s perspective hinges on perceived essential differences between men and women. We know from his reference to women’s wisdom at the spindle that Rabbi Eliezer sees women’s wisdom as distinct from men’s.
Elsewhere, the Talmud presents a debate about nature versus nurture and cognitive maturity for making vows. One position claims that male cognitive development proceeds faster than females’, because a boy’s educational opportunity advances him. A boy’s education means that his vows should take effect at an earlier age than his female peers.
A second view, associated with Rabbi Yehuda Ha-nasi, claims that females develop intellectual maturity faster than males. Halacha follows Rabbi Yehuda Ha-nasi. A female’s vows are binding at an earlier age than those of males. The rationale is that women have more bina than men:
נדה מה:
בינה יתירה באשה יותר מבאיש
Nidda 45b
There is more discernment [bina] in a woman than in a man.
Many rabbis have drawn on this idea to discuss essential differences between men and women. For example, Maharal of Prague contrasts a woman’s bina, which he translates as raw intelligence, with more abstract intelligence, which he identifies with men. Rav Kook references bina too. He argues that women have less need for formal study than men.
Rav Baruch Ha-levi Epstein, author of Torah Temima, compares the Talmud’s statement about bina with one that suggests women have a deficit of da’at, cognitive agency, compared to men. How can women simultaneously be superior and inferior to men?
He attempts to reconcile a woman’s da’at deficit with her surplus bina by suggesting that bina and da’at represent different types of thinking. So, for example, he considers Oral Torah to be less suited to a woman’s bina than Written Torah.
Following this line of thought, we could argue that men and women, on the whole, have different cognitive styles. The differences in the halacha of talmud Torah for men and women may reflect perceived gender differences like this.
(3) General Approach to Study Rabbi Eliezer’s perspective might result from his rigid views on the proper transmission of Torah from teacher to student.10 Rabbi Eliezer opposes divergence from the teacher-student model in which he himself learned and taught. To him, a female student might be another unacceptable divergence from tradition.
How Should Women Learn Torah?
While women are not obligated in the formal mitzva of talmud Torah, women are obligated to learn practical halachot. Rabbi Eliezer’s opposition to women’s study of Torah does not preclude learning halachot. The question has long been: How?
Which is more effective at teaching Halacha and protecting against mistakes, text study or informal transmission?
On the one hand, informal learning is well suited to preserving custom and detail.
However, it can also lend itself to misunderstanding or to exaggeration over time, in the direction of leniency or of stringency. To make matters worse, a woman who has learned Halacha informally is unlikely to be aware of gaps in her knowledge. Any rabbinic intervention would likely come unsolicited, and she may very well not take it to heart.
On the other hand, textual learning can be thorough and systematic. But it can be hard to know how to put book knowledge into practice.
The best answer is probably to combine the two methods– and to seek expert guidance for both.
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