- In Brief
- In Depth
- Dress Parameters
- Should our discussion of clothing end right here?
- General Coverage
- Is a focus on centimeters tzanu'a?
- Zero’a
- What does it mean to follow community norms?
- Further Reading
- Notes
- Sources
- Q&A
- Should our discussion of clothing end right here?
- Is a focus on centimeters tzanu'a?
- What does it mean to follow community norms?
- Podcast
What are the halachic parameters for women’s clothing?
In Brief
Where do we start?
Dat Yehudit, communal norms for modest conduct and dress among Jewish women, set the standard for women’s clothing. We should ideally start talking about the details of modest dress by looking around us.
Halachic sources do discuss some specifics, though, which we start to explore here.
What could traditionally be left uncovered?
The face, hands, and feet, and possibly more of the arms and legs.
What was covered?
We can infer that the torso should be covered from halachot like the laws of tearing one’s clothes in mourning, which makes adjustments for women to prevent exposing the torso.
Modern halachic authorities such as Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach typically set the boundary for where coverage should begin at the collarbone. According to some authorities, there is some room for leeway around the collarbone, depending on practice in a woman’s community.
What about the arms?
The Mishna lists spinning in a a marketplace as a violation of dat Yehudit. The Talmud explains that the issue at stake is a woman exposing her zero’a.
In the Torah, zero’a refers to the whole arm. A mishna, however, indicates that the zero’a is the upper arm, not including the elbow.
What do we say in practice?
Many modern halachic authorities, including Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach, maintain that the lower arms can be uncovered, from below the elbow.
Others permit covering less. Rav Nahum Rabinovitch, for example, writes that at minimum the majority of the zero’a, or upper arm from shoulder to elbow, should be covered. Also here, practice beyond the minimum depends on one’s community.
In Dress III we discuss more details, including extending the definition of erva, covering the legs, and skirts vs. pants.
In Depth
Rav Ezra Bick, Ilana Elzufon, Shayna Goldberg, Sarah Rudolph, and Rav Da’vid Sperling, eds.
Dress Parameters
The halachic category of dat Yehudit, introduced here, entails conduct and dress in line with the modest practice of Jewish women.
רמב”ם הלכות אישות כד:יא
ואיזו היא דת יהודית, הוא מנהג הצניעות שנהגו בנות ישראל.
Mishneh Torah Ishut 24:11
What is dat Yehudit? The modest behavior that the daughters of Israel practiced.
Jews should dress in a modest, dignified fashion. For a woman, communal norms for dress among Jewish women set that standard.
Given that this is the case, little more should need to be written about the halachot of clothing. In an ideal world, each woman would look around at what observant, modest Jewish women in her community wear, and simply take her cues from that.
Still, specific standards that halachic sources do discuss demand attention. Even within the religious community, clothing trends are sometimes in tension with Halacha.
Should our discussion of clothing end right here?
It would be tempting to stop our discussion of clothing here, especially since classic halachic sources do not discuss women’s dress in great detail.
Rather, they seem to take for granted that Jewish women should dress to a certain standard, in accordance with tzeniut and dat Yehudit, so that no further explanations should be necessary.
Why, then, do we discuss the what and how of clothing here— especially when a focus on measurements can divert our attention from the broader ideals of tzeniut?
A few reasons:
Norms of modest dress, even in secular society, have changed radically over the past decades, making it more difficult to have a clear sense of what is acceptable and what is not.
A community does not always have a single, unified standard of clothing, so that a woman might feel unsure about the halachic validity of specific styles she sees around her. Or she might have a pressing, practical reason to adopt a style that diverges from what is typical in her community. Perhaps she wonders what the guidelines are for adapting a new look to halachic standards. Or she might seek halachic context for the formal and informal dress codes she encounters.
By clarifying what Halacha requires and where it leaves room for interpretation, we can enable women to make educated halachic decisions about clothing.
Historically, Jewish women’s clothing usually covered much of the body, at least in public. Rashba specifies certain typically uncovered areas, about which Halacha voices no concern:1
רשב”א ברכות כד.
…פניה ידיה ורגליה… אין חוששין להם…
Rashba Berachot 24a
…Her face, her hands/arms [Heb. ambiguous], and her feet/legs [Heb. ambiguous]….we are not concerned about them.
While we can infer from Rashba that the rest of a woman’s body was typically covered, he does not provide us with precise definitions of where the coverage would begin whether below the face, on the arm, or on the leg. We look more closely at the first two here.
General Coverage
Some halachot imply that a woman’s torso should be covered. For example, a male mourner whose parent has died tears his clothing from the neckline down to the area of the heart. A female mourner, however, wears two layers, so that she can first tear the inner layer, then turn it around so the tear is in the back, and finally tear the top layer. This allows her to fulfill the obligation of tearing while keeping her torso covered.2
תלמוד בבלי מועד קטן כב:
על כל המתים כולן קורע טפח, על אביו ועל אמו – עד שיגלה את לבו… אחד האיש ואחד אשה. רבי שמעון בן אלעזר אומר: האשה קורעת את התחתון, ומחזירתו לאחוריה, וחוזרת וקורעת את העליון.
Mo'ed Katan 22b
Over all the dead [other than parents], a mourner tears a tefach [handsbreadth of clothing]. Over his father and his mother, [he tears] until he reveals his heart…Both a man and a woman [tear their clothing]. Rabbi Shimon ben Elazar says: A woman tears the inner [garment], and turns it around, and goes back and tears the upper [garment].
Where does the face end and the torso begin? Classic sources do not present detailed guidelines,3 but some later authorities provide some guidance. Kaf Ha-chayyim (19th-20th century), for instance, decries women showing cleavage:4
כף החיים עה:ג
להיות בית הצואר פתוח עד סמוך לדדיה זהו מנהג רע…
Kaf Ha-chayyim 75:3
For the neckline to be open until close to the breasts is a bad practice…
More recent authorities, including Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach, rule that a woman’s torso should be covered from the collarbone and down.
מנחת שלמה ג:קג:טו
בנוגע לבית הצואר, אפשר להקל עד העצם אם כך מנהג המקום.
Minchat Shelomo 3:103:15
Regarding the neckline, one can be lenient until the collarbone if this is the local practice.
Since we don’t find this sort of discussion in earlier texts, reference to the collarbone is best understood as an attempt to demarcate an objective border between the uncovered face and the covered torso.
This leaves some room for leeway. In many communities, modest women wear clothes with necklines that are close to the collarbone, without fully covering it. Drawing on the Talmud’s discussion of erva, (which includes typically-covered parts of the body,) Rav Yehuda Henkin suggests a formal leniency to leave up to a tefach, or handsbreadth (8-10.4 cm), below the collarbone exposed.5 Accepted practice in a given religious community is critically important here.
Is a focus on centimeters tzanu'a?
Not always. Part of the idea of tzeniut clothing is to respect the body and the person by removing the body from scrutiny.
The root tzadi.nun.ayin refers to the concealed. In Judaism, concealing something can be a sign of respect for it. The kodesh kodashim is both the most private and the most sacred area of Beit Ha-mikdash. The Sefer Torah is both clothed and kept in a secure place.
The Talmud teaches that blessings come upon that which is concealed from sight, and that concealment is in tension with overt measurement.
תלמוד בבלי תענית ח:
שאין הברכה מצויה לא בדבר השקול ולא בדבר המדוד ולא בדבר המנוי אלא בדבר הסמוי מן העין.
Ta'anit 8b
For a beracha is not found in a thing that is weighed and not in a thing that is measured and not in a thing that is counted, but in a thing that is concealed from the eye.
Even when measures have practical importance, we need to take care not to let them overtake our discussion, lest we dishonor that which tzeniut encourages us to respect.
Zero’a
Classical sources provide more detailed guidance about covering the arms. Two items on the mishna’s list of specific violations of dat Yehudit relate directly to women’s clothing, and the second of these has to do with the arms.
משנה כתובות פרק ז:ו
ואיזוהי דת יהודית יוצאה וראשה פרוע וטווה בשוק
Mishna Ketubot 7:6
What is dat Yehudit? She goes out with her head uncovered and she spins in the marketplace.
Elsewhere, we discuss head-covering, which entails a Torah obligation in addition to being a matter of dat Yehudit. Here, we look at the Talmud’s explanation of spinning in public:
תלמוד בבלי כתובות עב:
וטווה בשוק. אמר רב יהודה אמר שמואל: במראה זרועותיה לבני אדם.
Ketubot 72b
She spins in the marketplace. Rav Yehuda said in the name of Shemuel: When she displays her zero’ot [arms] to people.
When a woman raises the spindle, her garments could open or slip down to reveal her arms. Risking such exposure in public violates dat Yehudit.
In modern times, bare arms can seem innocuous. However, a second Talmudic source about spinning in the marketplace suggests that coverage of the arms, such as while spinning, can also prevent the sides of the torso from becoming visible.6 Furthermore, there is Talmudic precedent for seeing the arms themselves as particularly beautiful when they catch the light.7 Covering the zero’a also proves important for men, when they lead prayer:
שולחן ערוך אורח חיים הלכות ברכות השחר ושאר ברכות נג: יג
פוחח, והוא מי שבגדו קרוע וזרועותיו מגולים, לא ירד לפני התיבה.
Shulchan Aruch OC 53:13
A poche’ach, i.e. one whose garment is torn and his arms revealed, should not lead prayer.
The idea that shirts with sleeves present a more respectable and dignified mode of attire than sleeveless ones holds true for men as well as women.
Defining Zero’a
What part of the body is the zero’a? In the Torah, zero’a refers to the whole arm:
דברים פרק כו:ח
וַיּוֹצִאֵנוּ ה’ מִמִּצְרַיִם בְּיָד חֲזָקָה וּבִזְרֹעַ נְטוּיָה וּבְמֹרָא גָּדֹל וּבְאֹתוֹת וּבְמֹפְתִים:
Devarim 26:8
And God took us out of Egypt with a strong hand and an outstretched arm [zero’a] and with great awe and with signs and with wonders.
A mishna that discusses human anatomy, however, indicates that the zero’a is the upper arm, not including the elbow:8
משנה אהלות פרק א: ח
מאתים וארבעים ושמונה אברים באדם… שנים בקנה ושנים במרפק אחד בזרוע וארבעה בכתף…
Mishna Oholot 1:8
There are 248 limbs in a human being…Two in the lower arm, two in the elbow, one in the zero’a [upper arm], and four in the shoulder.
In line with this mishna, Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach stipulates that only the upper arm need be covered. He includes the elbow as well, perhaps as a precaution against more of the arm or body becoming uncovered when in motion if sleeves are shorter, or perhaps to ensure that not even a sliver of the upper arm is ever uncovered:
מנחת שלמה קג:טו
“זרוע” מה שנוגע לצניעות כולל גם את המרפק ואין לסמוך על המקילים…וגם טוב ויפה לכסות עוד מעט מהיד.
Minchat Shelomo 103:15
“Zero’a” regarding tzeniut includes the elbow and one should not rely on those who are lenient…It is also good and fitting to cover a little more of the arm.
Others, Rav Yehuda Henkin and Rav Nahum Rabinovitch among them, maintain that less coverage would be technically permissible. Rav Aharon Lichtenstein reportedly shared this view (according to his daughter, Rabbanit Esti Rosenberg).
Again drawing from Talmudic discussion of erva, Rav Henkin writes that up to a tefach of the arm above the elbow may be uncovered:
Rav Yehuda Henkin, Understanding Tzniut (Jerusalem:Urim, 2008), p. 24.
A typology can be established…Sleeves within a tefach of the elbow- minimum permitted.
Rav Rabinovitch says it is sufficient to cover the majority of the upper arm, where that is accepted as common custom:
שו”ת שיח נחום קז- כיסוי זרוע לאשה
מעיקר הדין יש לכסות את הזרוע (=החלק שבין הכתף והמרפק), אך חז”ל לא קבעו שיעור מוגדר לכיסוי זה, ומכל מקום דרך צניעות היא לכסות את רוב הזרוע. אמנם, בענייני צניעות המלבוש ראוי להתחשב גם במנהגי החברה של שומרי תורה ומצוות אליה רוצים להשתייך, ואם נוהגות נשים באותה חברה לכסות יותר-ראוי לנהוג כן.
Responsa Si'ach Nachum 107
The basic halacha is to cover the zero’a (the portion between the shoulder and the elbow), but the Sages did not establish a defined measure for this coverage. In any case, the way of modesty is to cover most of the zero’a. However, in matters of modesty in clothing, it is appropriate to consider the customs of the society of Torah-observant Jews with which we wish to affiliate, and if women in that society are accustomed to cover more, it is appropriate to adopt that custom.
In light of the different halachic approaches to how much of the zero’a needs to be covered, religious community norms again play a decisive role.
In Dress III, we discuss more details, including extending the definition of the term erva, the leg, and skirts vs. pants.
What does it mean to follow community norms?
In cases in which the practice of dat Yehudit should determine details of clothing, it can be difficult to know how to define one’s religious community. Beyond the absolute minimums, there isn’t a single standard that all communities follow. Members of many religious communities, to the right and the left, reject the practices of other communities. Further complicating matters, modern communities are fluid. A person can pass through several communities in the course of a day,.
At Deracheha, we seek to help members of different communities respect each other’s practices by understanding their sources. In general, Halacha urges us to respect local customs, certainly in public. When spending time in a public area of another community, there is a value to dressing in a way that shows respect for local practice. At the same time, wherever we are, we should keep our own halachic and communal affiliations in mind, and dress in a way that respects them, as well.
By limiting absolute standards to a few key points, early halachic sources express trust in the Jewish people and its intuitions for applying tzeniut appropriately in different contexts.
Further Reading
- Ellinson, Rabbi Elyakim Getsel. Woman and the Mitzvot: Guide to the Rabbinic Sources Vol. 2, The Modest Way, trans. Raphael Blumberg. Jerusalem: World Zionist Organization Department for Torah Education and Culture in the Diaspora, 1992.
- Haber, Rav Shemuel. Et Tzenu’im Chochma, Vol. 1. Karnei Shomron, 2007.
- Henkin, Rav Yehuda. Understanding Tzniut: Modern Controversies in the Jewish Community. Jerusalem: Urim Publications, 2008.
Notes
2. See also Shulchan Aruch YD 340. We might also infer from the Mishna’s mandating at least some coverage for a woman being led to execution, or undergoing the sota ordeal, that we prioritize covering women’s bodies even in less routine situations.
משנה מסכת סנהדרין פרק ו :ג
וחכמים אומרים האיש נסקל ערום ואין האשה נסקלת ערומה:
משנה מסכת סוטה א:ה
וכהן אוחז בבגדיה אם נקרעו נקרעו אם נפרמו נפרמו עד שהוא מגלה את לבה
Mishna Sota 1:5
A Kohen holds her garments. If they get torn, they get torn, if they get ripped, they get ripped, until he reveals her heart.
The Talmud teaches that a sota (a woman accused of adultery) undergoes an ordeal in which her hair is uncovered and her garments torn. Nevertheless, there are limits to the violation of her modesty. A rope would be tied above her breasts so that her clothes would not fall down. Rambam writes that such slippage would leave her naked, which may imply that clothing covering the breasts and down is obligatory.
סוטה ח:
וקושרו לה למעלה מדדיה, כדי שלא ישמטו בגדיה מעליה.
Sota 8b
He [the Kohen] ties it [a rope] above her breasts, so that her clothes not fall off her.
רמב”ם הלכות סוטה ג:יא
וקושרו למעלה מדדיה כדי שלא יפלו הבגדים ונמצאת ערומה
Rambam Hilchot Sota 3:11
He ties [a rope] above her breasts so that her clothes not fall and she be naked.
גיטין דף צ.-צ:
…וטווה בשוק, ופרומה משני צדדיה… זו מצוה מן התורה לגרשה
Gittin 90a-90b
She spins in the marketplace and [her clothes are] split open at her two sides…This [woman], it is a mitzva from the Torah to divorce.
7. In a heartbreaking encounter at Rabbi Elazar’s sickbed, he and Rabbi Yochanan cry over physical beauty and its demise, representative of our fleeting earthly existence. The trigger for that discussion is the sight of Rabbi Yochanan’s luminous zero’a. We see a similar phenomenon in the Talmud with the zero’a of a woman named Chuma.
תלמוד בבלי ברכות ה:
רבי אלעזר חלש, על לגביה רבי יוחנן. חזא דהוה קא גני בבית אפל, גלייה לדרעיה ונפל נהורא. חזייה דהוה קא בכי רבי אלעזר. אמר ליה: אמאי קא בכית?…אמר ליה: להאי שופרא דבלי בעפרא קא בכינא.
Berachot 5b
Rabbi Elazar became sick. Rabbi Yochanan came in to [see] him. He saw that he was lying down in a dark house. He [Rabbi Yochanan] revealed his zero’a and light shone. He saw that Rabbi Elazar was crying. He said to him: Why are you crying? He [Rabbi Elazar] said to him [Rabbi Yochanan]: For this beauty that will be consumed by the dust I cry.
תלמוד בבלי כתובות סה.
איגלי דרעא, נפל נהורא בבי דינא.
Ketubot 65a
Her zero’a was revealed and light fell upon the beit din.
8. See too Tosafot, in the name of Rabbeinu Tam:
תוספות מנחות לז.
ואור”ת [=ואומר רבנו תם] דהוא גובה הבשר שבזרוע שבין בית השחי למרפק
Tosafot Menachot 37a
Rabbeinu Tam says that it [the place for the shel yad of tefillin] is the bulge of the zero’a which is between the armpit and the elbow.
Sources
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Dress Parameters
רמב”ם הלכות אישות כד:יא
ואיזו היא דת יהודית, הוא מנהג הצניעות שנהגו בנות ישראל.
Mishneh Torah Ishut 24:11
What is dat Yehudit? The modest behavior that the daughters of Israel practiced.
רשב”א ברכות כד.
…פניה ידיה ורגליה… אין חוששין להם…
Rashba Berachot 24a
…Her face, her hands/arms [Heb. ambiguous], and her feet/legs [Heb. ambiguous]….we are not concerned about them.
General Coverage
תלמוד בבלי מועד קטן כב:
על כל המתים כולן קורע טפח, על אביו ועל אמו – עד שיגלה את לבו… אחד האיש ואחד אשה. רבי שמעון בן אלעזר אומר: האשה קורעת את התחתון, ומחזירתו לאחוריה, וחוזרת וקורעת את העליון.
Mo'ed Katan 22b
Over all the dead [other than parents], a mourner tears a tefach [handsbreadth of clothing]. Over his father and his mother, [he tears] until he reveals his heart…Both a man and a woman [tear their clothing]. Rabbi Shimon ben Elazar says: A woman tears the inner [garment], and turns it around, and goes back and tears the upper [garment].
כף החיים עה:ג
להיות בית הצואר פתוח עד סמוך לדדיה זהו מנהג רע…
Kaf Ha-chayyim 75:3
For the neckline to be open until close to the breasts is a bad practice…
מנחת שלמה ג:קג:טו
בנוגע לבית הצואר, אפשר להקל עד העצם אם כך מנהג המקום.
Minchat Shelomo 3:103:15
Regarding the neckline, one can be lenient until the collarbone if this is the local practice.
תלמוד בבלי תענית ח:
שאין הברכה מצויה לא בדבר השקול ולא בדבר המדוד ולא בדבר המנוי אלא בדבר הסמוי מן העין.
Ta'anit 8b
For a beracha is not found in a thing that is weighed and not in a thing that is measured and not in a thing that is counted, but in a thing that is concealed from the eye.
Zero’a
משנה כתובות פרק ז:ו
ואיזוהי דת יהודית יוצאה וראשה פרוע וטווה בשוק
Mishna Ketubot 7:6
What is dat Yehudit? She goes out with her head uncovered and she spins in the marketplace.
כתובות עב:
וטווה בשוק. אמר רב יהודה אמר שמואל: במראה זרועותיה לבני אדם.
Ketubot 72b
She spins in the marketplace. Rav Yehuda said in the name of Shemuel: When she displays her zero’ot [arms] to people.
שולחן ערוך אורח חיים הלכות ברכות השחר ושאר ברכות נג: יג
פוחח, והוא מי שבגדו קרוע וזרועותיו מגולים, לא ירד לפני התיבה.
Shulchan Aruch OC 53:13
A poche’ach, i.e. one whose garment is torn and his arms revealed, should not lead prayer.
דברים פרק כו:ח
וַיּוֹצִאֵנוּ ה’ מִמִּצְרַיִם בְּיָד חֲזָקָה וּבִזְרֹעַ נְטוּיָה וּבְמֹרָא גָּדֹל וּבְאֹתוֹת וּבְמֹפְתִים:
Devarim 26:8
And God took us out of Egypt with a strong hand and an outstretched arm [zero’a] and with great awe and with signs and with wonders.
משנה אהלות פרק א: ח
מאתים וארבעים ושמונה אברים באדם… שנים בקנה ושנים במרפק אחד בזרוע וארבעה בכתף…
Mishna Oholot 1:8
There are 248 limbs in a human being…Two in the lower arm, two in the elbow, one in the zero’a [upper arm], and four in the shoulder.
מנחת שלמה קג:טו
“זרוע” מה שנוגע לצניעות כולל גם את המרפק ואין לסמוך על המקילים…וגם טוב ויפה לכסות עוד מעט מהיד.
Minchat Shelomo 103:15
“Zero’a” regarding tzeniut includes the elbow and one should not rely on those who are lenient…It is also good and fitting to cover a little more of the arm.
Rav Yehuda Henkin, Understanding Tzniut (Jerusalem:Urim, 2008), p. 24.
A typology can be established…Sleeves within a tefach of the elbow- minimum permitted.
שו”ת שיח נחום קז- כיסוי זרוע לאשה
מעיקר הדין יש לכסות את הזרוע (=החלק שבין הכתף והמרפק), אך חז”ל לא קבעו שיעור מוגדר לכיסוי זה, ומכל מקום דרך צניעות היא לכסות את רוב הזרוע. אמנם, בענייני צניעות המלבוש ראוי להתחשב גם במנהגי החברה של שומרי תורה ומצוות אליה רוצים להשתייך, ואם נוהגות נשים באותה חברה לכסות יותר-ראוי לנהוג כן.
Responsa Si'ach Nachum 107
The basic halacha is to cover the zero’a (the portion between the shoulder and the elbow), but the Sages did not establish a defined measure for this coverage. In any case, the way of modesty is to cover most of the zero’a. However, in matters of modesty in clothing, it is appropriate to consider the customs of the society of Torah-observant Jews with which we wish to affiliate, and if women in that society are accustomed to cover more, it is appropriate to adopt that custom.
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Should our discussion of clothing end right here?
It would be tempting to stop our discussion of clothing here, especially since classic halachic sources do not discuss women’s dress in great detail.
Rather, they seem to take for granted that Jewish women should dress to a certain standard, in accordance with tzeniut and dat Yehudit, so that no further explanations should be necessary.
Why, then, do we discuss the what and how of clothing here— especially when a focus on measurements can divert our attention from the broader ideals of tzeniut?
A few reasons:
Norms of modest dress, even in secular society, have changed radically over the past decades, making it more difficult to have a clear sense of what is acceptable and what is not.
A community does not always have a single, unified standard of clothing, so that a woman might feel unsure about the halachic validity of specific styles she sees around her. Or she might have a pressing, practical reason to adopt a style that diverges from what is typical in her community. Perhaps she wonders what the guidelines are for adapting a new look to halachic standards. Or she might seek halachic context for the formal and informal dress codes she encounters.
By clarifying what Halacha requires and where it leaves room for interpretation, we can enable women to make educated halachic decisions about clothing.
Is a focus on centimeters tzanu'a?
Not always. Part of the idea of tzeniut clothing is to respect the body and the person by removing the body from scrutiny.
The root tzadi.nun.ayin refers to the concealed. In Judaism, concealing something can be a sign of respect for it. The kodesh kodashim is both the most private and the most sacred area of Beit Ha-mikdash. The Sefer Torah is both clothed and kept in a secure place.
The Talmud teaches that blessings come upon that which is concealed from sight, and that concealment is in tension with overt measurement.
תלמוד בבלי תענית ח:
שאין הברכה מצויה לא בדבר השקול ולא בדבר המדוד ולא בדבר המנוי אלא בדבר הסמוי מן העין.
Ta'anit 8b
For a beracha is not found in a thing that is weighed and not in a thing that is measured and not in a thing that is counted, but in a thing that is concealed from the eye.
Even when measures have practical importance, we need to take care not to let them overtake our discussion, lest we dishonor that which tzeniut encourages us to respect.
What does it mean to follow community norms?
In cases in which the practice of dat Yehudit should determine details of clothing, it can be difficult to know how to define one’s religious community. Beyond the absolute minimums, there isn’t a single standard that all communities follow. Members of many religious communities, to the right and the left, reject the practices of other communities. Further complicating matters, modern communities are fluid. A person can pass through several communities in the course of a day,.
At Deracheha, we seek to help members of different communities respect each other’s practices by understanding their sources. In general, Halacha urges us to respect local customs, certainly in public. When spending time in a public area of another community, there is a value to dressing in a way that shows respect for local practice. At the same time, wherever we are, we should keep our own halachic and communal affiliations in mind, and dress in a way that respects them, as well.
By limiting absolute standards to a few key points, early halachic sources express trust in the Jewish people and its intuitions for applying tzeniut appropriately in different contexts.
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